WELCOME TO
LOVE ME AGAIN
THE LOVERS GAME
A Card Came for Couples
The intention of this enquiry set is to Re-Member, Re-Discover, Re-Connect, Re-Pair, Re-Evaluate, and Re-New your relationship.
Life gets busy. We grow. We grow apart. We run stories. We forget to connect. We lose ourselves. We lose each other. We get bored. We get selfish. We fight. Issues arise. Resentment grows. We forget. We hurt one another. We hold onto hurts. We become parents. We become complacent. We become stagnant. We grow tired. We forget. Things change. We change.
This enquiry set offers you the opportunity to sit and discuss topics which usually don’t get addressed in the day-to-day cycles of life.
Each section explores different areas of interest, offering unique opportunities to discuss and share your thoughts, feelings and perspectives in a safe and objective space.
The question cards are responsible for what is brought to the metaphorical table, not you. This creates a space between each other to talk without personalisation and reactivity; the card made you ask.
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THE LOVERS GAME
REMEMBER
Re-member invites the beauty of your "early days" of love to be revisited and refreshed. There’s nothing like remembering your ‘firsts’ as a couple to ignite feelings of love to revisit, rejoice and reunite.
REDISCOVER
Re-discover creates the space to revisit each other. Over time people change, things get forgotten and interests shift. The questions offer the opportunity to learn about each other again and discover each other afresh.
RECONNECT
Re-connect explores topics of vulnerability. Vulnerability is the access point to connectivity. Toxic-masculinity and toxic-femininity conditioning feed shame. This enquiry set asks questions which help explore fearful and shame-provoking topics, alleviating discomfort and opening space for a deeper and more profound connection.
RE EVALUATE
Re-evaluate aims to discuss the relationship dynamics and bring about exploration to potentially change the systems within the relationship that have been set up - whether consciously or unconsciously. Couples often unconsciously set up systems in which they play roles that are familiar to their family of origin. Rarely do we sit back to assess the roles and rules that exist within the relationship, whether we like them or not. These questions create space to reassess the relationship system offering opportunity for less conflict, more appreciation and fulfilment in the day to day roles.
REPAIR
Re-pair looks at unresolved conflict that lays dormant or active in the relationship. This is the opportunity to have big topics on the table which are usually no-go zones topics. Over time in relationships, avoidance of difficult issues becomes a natural phenomenon. This set of questions bring topics to the table in a non-personal objective manner, offering the opportunity to build deeper understanding of each other’s experiences and hopes for the future in a non-threatening way. By creating a safe space to enquire about tentative issues, resolution and repairing can occur leaving your relationship feeling lighter, with more understanding, and more forgiveness resulting in reunifying your bond.
RENEW
Re-new brings exploration to areas of your relationship which could do with a little revamp. Constant renewal of your intentions for the relationship and in investment towards each other offers your union a beginner’s mind, a begin again heart and a reinvestment into your life together.